What Are Verbal Routines? How Can They Help My Child Communicate?

By Rachel Lynn, CCC-SLP | Co-Creator of the WhyDo & HowTo™ Series | Founder, NewDay Child Coaching

What is a Verbal Routine?

A verbal routine is a simple, repeated phrase or sentence you use during everyday activities—like "Ready, set, go!"before pushing a swing, or "Wash, wash, wash your hands!" at the sink.

These predictable patterns of speech are powerful communication tools. Babies and toddlers learn through repetition—so when you repeat the same words in the same way, your child begins to anticipate what’s coming, connect words to actions, and even start joining in.

Predictable phrases build brain pathways. They invite your child into the rhythm of communication...before they even speak.

—Rachel Lynn, CCC-SLP

Child swinging---weee!

Why Are Verbal Routines So Helpful?

Verbal routines are one of the earliest building blocks of communication. Here’s why:

✅ They create predictability. This helps your child feel secure and understand what’s coming next.

🗣️ They support language learning. Repetition helps your child pair words with actions, objects, or emotions.

👀 They encourage attention and imitation. Your child may smile, move, reach, or vocalize in response.

🔁 They support turn-taking. These “scripts” create natural back-and-forths that are critical for social interaction.

And here’s the best part? You’re probably already using verbal routines without realizing it!

💡 Examples of Verbal Routines You Can Try Today

Everyday Moment	Try Saying…
Bathtime	“Wash, wash, wash your… toes!”
Playtime	“1, 2, 3… go!” (before pushing a ball or swing)
Mealtime	“All done!” or “More, please?”
Diaper Change	“Diaper time! Diaper time!”
Getting Dressed	“Shirt on—arms up!”

👉 Use a consistent tone, pace, and expression. That’s what makes it feel familiar and engaging to your child.

🧩 How to Build Your Own Verbal Routines

Start simple. Choose 1–2 activities you do daily and add a repeated phrase.

1. Pick a short, catchy phrase that matches the action.

2. Use it the same way, every time. Say it clearly and with emotion.

3. Pause and wait—even if your baby doesn’t respond yet. That “wait time” helps them process.

4. Celebrate any attempt to participate, even if it’s just a look, smile, or coo.

5. Stick with it! Repetition over time leads to understanding and imitation.

   
   

🎯 When to Use Verbal Routines

• During transitions (getting in the car, going to sleep)

• During care routines (feeding, diaper changes, baths)

• During play (blocks, swinging, bubbles)

• Any time you want to encourage connection

You don’t need flashcards or apps. Just you, your voice, and repetition. That’s how brains grow best in the early years.

📘 Expert Tip from Our Team

At NewDay Child Coaching, we work as a team of pediatric SLPs, OTs, and PTs, and verbal routines are a go-to strategy across all areas of development, from communication to motor skills and sensory regulation.

🔁 Recap: Why Verbal Routines Work

• 🧠 Build brain patterns

• 📣 Boost early language

• 🤝 Teach turn-taking

• 💛 Strengthen connection

What Do You Think?

Have you tried using Verbal Routines at home? What are your child’s favorite silly phrases or actions?

Share your experience in the comments—or tell us your go-to “sing-songy” routine!

We’d love to hear from you. 💬👇

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With heart,

The NewDay Child Coaching Team

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