Sensory System Hangovers: Why Your Child May Meltdown After a "Good" Day

Here Today, (maybe not) Gone Tomorrow...Let's talk about the Sensory System

By Rachel Lynn, CCC-SLP | Pediatric Speech-Language Pathologist | Founder, NewDay Child Coaching

What Is a Sensory System Hangover?

A Sensory System Hangover is what happens when your child’s brain and body get overwhelmed by too much sensory input. This can happen even when it comes from fun things like a birthday party, trip to the zoo, or a loud family gathering.

After all the action is over, they crash.

You might see:

• Meltdowns or tears at home

• Resistance to basic routines (like dinner or bath)

• Sleep struggles

• Clinginess or irritability

• Shutting down or zoning out

Sound familiar? You’re not alone, and your child isn’t being “bad.” They may just be recovering from Sensory System overload.

Babies enjoying themselves at a birthday party.

What Causes a Sensory System Hangover?

Kids experience the world through their Sensory Systems: touch, sound, sight, movement, and more.

When they’re exposed to too much stimulation all at once, their nervous system has to work overtime to process it all. Some kids bounce back easily, but others need more time and support.

Sensory system hangovers happen when the body has taken in more than it can sort through. Even joyful things can leave a child drained.

-Rachel Lynn, CCC-SLP

Signs Your Child May Have Sensory System Overload:

• Sudden emotional outbursts after an event

• Complaints of being tired or "not feeling good"

• Refusing familiar foods or activities

• Needing extra space or alone time

• Tuning out or becoming unusually quiet

This isn’t defiance, it’s nervous system fatigue.

Common Triggers

• Birthday parties

• School days or daycare

• Loud or crowded stores

• Vacations or travel days

• Overpacked weekends

• Holidays or family visits

Even happy events can overwhelm a child’s system--especially those with sensory sensitivities or developmental differences.

What’s Actually Happening in the Brain?

When your child’s sensory system is overloaded, the fight, flight, or freeze response can kick in.Think of it like a phone with too many apps open--eventually, it freezes.

Meltdowns = system reboot; Shutdowns = battery-saving mode

Either way, they need time to recharge.

What You Can Do: How to Support a Child With Sensory Hangovers

✅ Before the Event:

• Prep your child with visuals or verbal expectations

• Keep routines predictable

• Build in movement and quiet time before leaving

✅ During the Event:

• Take breaks in calm spaces

• Use noise-canceling headphones if needed

• Offer sensory tools (like a chewy necklace, fidget toy, or weighted lap pad)

✅ After the Event:

• Expect decompression time

• Create a “recovery routine” (dim lights, warm bath, quiet play)

• Offer comforting, low-demand connection (snuggle and a story)

🙌 Remember: It’s Not Just You

Many parents tell us:

The meltdown didn’t happen at the party—it happened when we got home.

That’s because your child held it together through the excitement, and now that they feel safe, their body is asking for rest and regulation.

You didn’t do anything wrong.Your child isn’t “too sensitive.”

They just need a little help recovering, and you can absolutely support that with confidence.

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At NewDay Child Coaching, our pediatric OT, PT, and SLP team teaches families how to:

• Recognize signs of sensory overload

• Build personalized recovery routines

• Support sensory regulation with tools, rhythms, and routines that work

We want to give you the tools so that you feel confident in being the expert for your child, and we’re here for back up.

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With heart,

The NewDay Child Coaching Team

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