Throw into a Basket—Not at Me! When toddler throwing gets unruly

When toddler throwing gets unruly

Who's had to dodge (or not dodge successfully) a flying block or ball aimed straight at your head?🙋🏻‍♀️ I have! Too many times to count, actually. LOL.

It might feel chaotic—and sometimes painful—but here's a gentle reminder: toddlers aren't trying to hurt you or drive you bonkers.

Throwing is actually a normal and important part of their development.

Toddler throwing a ball outside.

When toddler throwing gets unruly

From a child development perspective, throwing helps toddlers build coordination, arm strength, spatial awareness, and even problem-solving skills. But just because it's "normal" doesn't mean it's always fun to be the unintentional target. 🧱😅

So what can you do?

🎯 Redirect That Energy: Teach Them to Throw into a Basket!

One of our favorite strategies as pediatric therapists (and fellow moms!) is to create a purposeful, playful way to throw. Here’s how:

🧺 1. Make a Basket for Favorite Toys

Set up a few baskets or bins around the room—one for blocks, one for balls, one for plushies, whatever they love. When it's time to clean up (or just for fun!), invite your toddler to toss items into the baskets.

🧦 2. Get Practical: Laundry Time = Game Time

Let your toddler help collect dirty clothes from around the house. "Can you find Daddy’s socks? Throw them in the laundry basket!" It turns a chore into a giggle-filled game AND builds independence.

🗣️ 3. Layer in Language

While you're redirecting their throws, build vocabulary and connection:

• “Where’s your block? Oh, there it is!”

• “Throw your blue block in the basket. Way to go!”

• “You found a sock! Throw it in!”

You're not just teaching where to throw—you're also encouraging listening skills, color and object identification, and simple following directions.

When toddler throwing gets unruly

❤️ Keep It Positive and Playful

Kids love games like this. When you make it fun and celebratory, they’re more likely to follow your lead. You’ll dodge fewer toys, and they’ll gain skills they actually need.

So next time a block flies your way, take a deep breath and remember:

It’s not personal—it’s developmental.

Then? Grab a basket. 🎯🧺

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The NewDay Child Coaching Team

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